The Easter gospel each year offers a valuable and revealing contrast.
On the one hand, we have a foot race. A competition between disciples to out-do the other. A contest that seems to be as machismo-fueled as it is earnest. One that displays physical speed and endurance and deep concern to prove just how important he is by how quickly he responds to the needs of others.
On the other, is Mary, who showed up in the first place. Who offered her concerns, and then returns to dwell and linger. It is no surprise that such a one receives Jesus.
While the Western world is obsessed with competitiveness, certainty, and doing things “right”, neither disciple actually wins in any way that matters. The one who gets the time with Jesus, and the certainty, is the one who lingers, inquires, and honors him.