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Food Allergies Are a Big Deal

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Food allergy is more common than before. Much more common. 50% more of our children have allergies than children two decades ago. We all know a child with at least one allergy; it is statistically certain.

At the same time, I find a willful ignorance on the subject. I hear complaints of inconvenience. I see lax response to the needs of people with food allergies.

We can try and we can forget.

Like I did two Sundays ago. The visitor who asked for the gluten-free wafer, the one who was promised protection and we weren’t prepared. I felt absolutely horrible.

After the service, we found the consecrated gluten-free wafers, and I washed my hands, and retrieved a clean chalice and poured into it wine from the reserve. Two others joined us up at the altar and we communed together. It wasn’t perfect. It wasn’t the way I dreamed it up. But we need to be a source of life for everyone.

"Food Allergies Are a Big Deal" by Drew Downs

I have my own fears, my own concerns. Because accidents happen. And we rely on everyone to take care of each other. Using an EPI-pen (as I have) can be the difference between life and death. That’s why parents get funny about their kids and food allergies.

This excellent video clearly explains the how, the why, and the treatment for those with food allergy.

Please take the time this week to learn more about food allergies, what they mean for families, and what can be done to protect everyone.

You can start by reading this letter by the President and this list of resources put out by the NIAID.

Then talk about it with someone you love. Without snark or derision. Without joking or mocking. Just be honest. That allergies are real. And we can all do things to protect our, and someone else’s loved ones.

 

[Here are some of my writings on allergy.]

6 responses

  1. I hear so many people gripe about how they are inconvenienced by someone else’s allergy. They think they are inconvenienced? I try to keep calm, but truly it enrages me when people complain they can’t pack PB sandwiches for kids’ lunches. I fail to see how that inconvenience compares to the tragedy of potentially losing your child forever because someone nearby couldn’t forego a PB sandwich.

    As fate would have it, A and I just learned this morning that J is allergic to egg whites. We knee it was something after a few bouts of projectile vomiting after eating the last two weeks. It’s good to know what.

    1. It sure is! We’ve had a mystery allergy that we’ve had trouble with, perhaps garlic? We’re not sure. That is the hard part, the not knowing.

      But knowing means you can do something. I’m glad you were able to find out for J! That is excellent. And deal-with-able(?)!

    2. My school system has separate “allergen free” tables. Kids and their friends can sit at those tables to eat lunch. But there is no ban on foods. It would get ridiculous. Foods containing nuts. Foods containing eggs. Foods containing gluten. I actually met a kid who was allergic to protein.

      But there is a cost. I actually had one parent on a food allergy forum suggest that all households with school age kids should go peanut free because the peanut oil could be on their clothes.

      1. Thanks for your insight! I think you are right, Khurt. It is hard to protect our kids and make this all work. We have a delicate dance between protection and maintaining the hope for equal right/protection in school. Personally, I’m torn about the separate table. We did have a student at my daughter’s previous school who needed a separate room because of the severity of his allergy.

        Our allergist several years ago helped me understand why peanuts are a different allergy than others: because the chemical composition breaks and goes airborne really, really easily, way more than other foods. It does provide a different hazard for people, particularly as it does stick to hands and clothes.

        In a perfect world, we’d find a way to all pitch in to protect the most challenged among us. I think a good first step is to provide more education about prevalence and how to deal with it. And maybe some new solutions can bubble up!

        1. I should note that my nephew has severe nut allergies and I have witnessed first hand seen what happens when he’s exposed. Even his birth is a miracle baby. His mother is allergic to my bother’s sperm. He exist only because a team of doctors in France made it possible.

          I want everyone to be safe. But I also want the parents of some of the kids to understand that at the end of the day, their child needs to live in the world. And with the world, the needs of the many, often, outweigh the needs of the few.

          1. Very true. Thanks!

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