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In abuse, sex is the weapon, power is the cause

The sex abuse scandal in the Roman Catholic Church has caused a great deal of speculation and fighting–ideological, political, theological–and all (theoretically) for the betterment of the church.

A new study, which I expect to do little to squash the fighting and speculating, attempts to make good PR for the Roman church by countering the arguments of its critics.  But it does nothing to change the debate; it simply adds more ammunition to a war that already has far too many casualties.  And worse, it ignores the real problem: power.

Psychologists have long contended that abuse, and particularly sexual abuse, is not about sex, per se, or deviance, but the exercising of power or dominance over another.  In this way, the study reveals nothing surprising or unexpected.  The abuse of (predominantly) teen and pre-teen boys was not a symptom of the church’s stance on sexuality.  I for one never thought it was.  What it is, however, is something much scarier for the institution: an institutional hierarchy that seems to have driven many men to seek power through domination.

Of course I am not condoning, defending, or supporting the RCC’s handling of anything.  What I am pointing out is that the Church’s ecclesiological problem led to a sex abuse problem.  I do believe that RC clergy would be healthier without the celibacy requirement, but I also believe they would be healthier without a top-down hierarchy.  Their system is all about power–who has it and who doesn’t–and is predecated on people’s respect of the (male) individual in power.  The truth of the matter is that the same hierarchical model would be far less dangerous if women were involved in leadership and holding positions of real power.  I say this, not because women can do it better or that women are immune to this behavior (far from it), but that the diversity of people in power brings a natural balance to the arrangement.  Diversity in leadership levels things, bringing the laity and the clergy closer.

What the study does reveal, and I hope it is used usefully and not as some lame excuse, is that the social upheaval of the 1960s seemed to spark something in the clergy trained in the 1940s and 50’s toward this abusive behavior.  I believe that this only really makes sense in light of the power argument.  This loss of influence, seemingly deteriorating morals, and a profound sense of impotence led a bunch of men to abuse the powerless because of the hierarchy that made them feel powerless to effect the world around them and gave them a bunch of people they could dominate.

The issues of sex, gender, social unrest are only the window dressing of this conversation.  And there will be no resolution until the RCC deals with the institutional crisis.

3 responses

  1. Kudos on a thougtful and cogent post. I would only add that the bishops colluded around the world to protect the church and gave no thought to protecting the abused children. Sadly, I am one of the tens of thousands of kids sexually abused by a catholic priest. I am an ex catholic because the abuse caused me to examin catholic doctrine agtainst the bible and found that 95% of catholic doctrine is in direct contradiction to biblical mandates

    I have the double whammy of a priest impregnating my mother while my father was away at sea in the navy. My father took it out on my poor brother instead of my mother and he is a social misfit today who is basically worthless.

    What is worse, is when I confont catholics with scripture invalidating their phony doctrine, they explain why Chrisit is wrong and the church is right.

    Blessings on you and yours
    John Wilder

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    addowns

    John,

    Sorry for the delay in releasing your comment. I have been away from the blog for a couple of weeks and now return.

    I deeply appreciate your candor, and insight. I know that I have had nothing to do with your experience and the traumatic effects the church has had on your family, but I feel as if some apology is owed you. We both know that it will never come from those whom most need to say it to you, but for what its worth, let me do it. As a Christian that hasn’t always spoken out when I needed to; as a leader that has sometimes been afraid to preach all of the gospel; and as a presbyter who hasn’t always been a good enough servant, please let me say I am sorry.

    I pray that one day the human part of the RCC will recognize it’s failings and give more respect to the part led by the Spirit.

    Shalom my friend,
    Drew+

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