Tag: intimacy

  • The Pain of Intimacy—Receiving love from a vulnerable Jesus 

    The Pain of Intimacy—Receiving love from a vulnerable Jesus 

    The story of the Last Supper, of gathering and teaching and eating and washing feet, is about our pain and fear of intimacy.

  • Trust

    Trust

    The secret ingredient of love: trust. Choosing to trust. Being trusted; and trustworthy. This is all actually required for love.

  • Repentance–Turning Toward Love

    Repentance–Turning Toward Love

    In preaching repentance, John reveals the surprising truth about the mission of Jesus. That we are first called to admit that we were wrong. Advent 2B  |  Mark 1:1-8 Reading the opening verses of Mark, we’re often struck by what’s not there. There’s no Mary and Joseph. No trip to Bethlehem, to David’s city. We…

  • To Create Withness

    To Create Withness

    7. But in Jesus, we are given human responsibility to create withness with one another. The nature of God is withness. From the divine dance of the Holy Trinity to the very withness of Jesus, all of God’s glory is withness. What I mean by “withness” is presence–the eternal and constant being with someone. And this idea of…

  • Exposing Beauty

    The ugliness is the brutality, not the day itself: it isn’t ugly. Not the sacrifice. Not what Jesus does in showing off the destructiveness of our obsession with power. Walking to his death defiantly humble, leaving Jerusalem displaying the same character with which he entered.

  • Keeping it 100

    Keeping it 100

    When Jesus gathers his disciples for the Passover, Jesus does this one most radical act. No, not the Last Supper or the footwashing. What he does is treat Judas like one of the team. Like he isn’t about the betray him. The message, if we can hear it, is not only get together and eat,…

  • Ghettoed Suffering: a Reflection on World AIDS Day

    I drove across town to Maple Avenue United Methodist Church. It was dark, cold; the streets were wet. I was running late, but thankfully it started late. The room was nowhere near full. But it was diverse. Wide variety in ages, including college students and some much older. There was also ethnic and gender diversity.…

  • How to know when someone is lying to you

    There is a simple test for dishonesty. You’ve been told to look for nonverbal cues: the other person is nervous or doesn’t blink. That stuff. You’ve even been told how to catch a lie in an email. But I’ve got a better measuring stick for dishonesty. When you are talking with someone, notice whether or not their sharing…