Drew Downs

Make a New Normal

Living

Life is hard. And full. And awesome. Live it.

  • When Rose was pregnant with our daughter, we read to her.  We picked out a bunch of children’s books and we read to her in utero.  We felt pretty silly doing it, but we hoped that it would help her.  She would get used to our voices, the sound of our reading to her, and…

  • Parents struggle from the moment their babies are born to understand them. We listen intently to hear the different cries–the I’m-hungry cry; the I-want-you-to-hold-me cry; the I-refuse-to-admit-I’m-tired cry; and the far too common I-just-want-my-way cry. The discerning parent learns to tell the difference in these cries. Each has a differed tone and different facial expressions.…

  • About a boy

    My daughter’s new buddy. His name is Boy. He looks like the one her Nana got her the other day. His name is also Boy. Well, they are Smurfs after all.

  • My Mom has been visiting us for the last two weeks. It was a Godsend. Rose and I needed a break and some help and the opportunity to relax. My Mom was great at this: Sophia stuck by her side the whole visit and we even had a few opportunities to go out! We went…

  • Sophia was telling her Nana about what a big girl she was. I was down the hall, heading into the bathroom to brush my teeth. I overheard her say to her grandma, “After I’m 4, I will be 5!” I hear her little feet trotting down the hall. “Daddy, after I’m 4, I will be…

  • We just went for this short walk in the muggy, post-rain heat, looking for puddles in which to jump (a favorite past time, like her favorite, Peppa Pig). Our street is severely lacking in it’s ability to make puddles, so we have to walk a ways. After pressuring me to go out for a walk…