Category: Living

Life is hard. And full. And awesome. Live it.

  • The reality within fantasy (baseball)

    The reality within fantasy (baseball)

    What fantasy baseball can tell us about reality, behavior, and how to succeed at life—and the predictability of our common failure.

  • The perfect length of beard

    The perfect length of beard

    The pursuit of the perfect beard is a false expectation. How we deal with self-sabotage and perfectionism, however, is the real work.

  • Fireworks are never personal

    Fireworks are never personal

    Fireworks are the definition of public displays. Explosions of sound and light, fire and power. A violent eruption to the mundane.

  • Home—everything always changes

    Home—everything always changes

    We need to not only accept change, but the feeling that sometimes rejects it—there is something at war in us that time always exacerbates.

  • I ordered the usual

    I ordered the usual

    On a trip to the campus bookstore on the last day of residency, I rush to get clothes and coffee before our final workshop starts.

  • A New Name

    A New Name

    If you had a different name then the one you were given, what would it be? What would mine be? Really, what goes into a name?

  • Healed —and the willingness to be changed

    Healed —and the willingness to be changed

    When we long to be healed, praying for God to heal us of what ails us, do we dare acknowledge that we are supposed to change?

  • To lighten the rain

    To lighten the rain

    The joy of the elements is to be felt and experienced—with the courage to be open, to ourselves and others as we are or could be.