You have a preference. Everyone does. You want your pastor or priest to look a certain way.

You know other people have a preference, too. Their preference may match yours. It may not.

You know the pastor or priest has her preference. Hopefully you care what that is.

The question is not so much whether or not you have a preference, but why. Why that one? And why do you care at all? Do you expect your preference to win the day?

Personally, I like the freedom to choose, to know that I can feel comfortable in whatever I wear.

Since our work has more to do with bringing the kingdom closer, let’s not spend so much time deciding. Pick and move on.

And if you don’t like her choice? The answer is the same. You’ve picked, now move on.